In Chapter 9 of the New New Media
textbook, it starts to talk about the more darker side of new media
because like most things in life there is always two sides to a
situation. Obviously something that we use every single day like the
new media devices such as the Internet; we tend to not so much stand
back and look at the big picture of what its doing for us and what
harm it may be causing. For the person who is technologically sound
and has a well understanding of what some of the harmful threats they
may encounter, they may not need to take notice. However some people
on the Internet today, an example being a young kid in middle school,
might not know the dangers or the darker side of new media that
unfortunately some people have to deal with.
To me if someone were to ask the
biggest danger people face when they use knew media is online
gossiping and cyberbullying. This to me needs to be directed more
towards a younger audience because they need to learn young what the
dangers are of reading things online and having the pressure of other
kids talking through a computer. This is a problem that just seems to
keep growing and growing and will continue to do so until some
realize what the affects are from doing so. I believe we have to
teach our youth to not listen to what other kids say on the Internet,
to not even snoop to their level and let it just go over their head.
Easier said than done but I truly believe if you condition someone to
not listen to the gossip and be above it that it wont effect them and
they will benefit.
Like we discussed in class I don’t
believe that it will ever truly be solved because your still going to
have that little prick in school that no one really enjoys being
around because their parents have no guidance for them so they have
to make fun of other kids. As much as I hate seeing it happen it
still does and still will. So my opinion is instead of trying to
prevent them, you just have to condition the “normal” kids who
don’t have problems to see over that prick kid who’s just trying
to get a rise out of you. The world isn’t a pretty place all the
time so I think that kids need to be able to protect themselves by
being what I like to call strong minded, but the hard part is we are
talking about young adolescents who are going through a crazy time in
life.
As stated on Commonsensemedia.org
“Appearance, conformity, and acceptance by peers is of utmost
importance. As your teen is trying to fit in with peers, he or she
may be struggling with how to make good choices and define ethical
behavior. Teens may not want to tell you if they encounter
cyberbullying.” Parents need to also be more understanding about
what their child will be going through and how hard it can be to
“fit-in” with other classmates without taking that wrong step.
Obviously it shouldn’t have to be like that for anyone no matter
what circumstance but it does so parents need to do the only thing
they can do as of now and that is protect.
One last important note is that
parents themselves need to want to be more aware of whats going on
with their kids, not being over protective and know everything, but
have their kids comfortable enough where they can come to them with a
problem. No kid should feel like he or she cannot go to their parents
to talk to them about a situation that happened at school I mean its
your family.
Source:
"Stand up to Cyberbullying." Reviews & Age Ratings. N.p., n.d. Web. 21 Apr. 2014. <http://www.commonsensemedia.org/cyberbullying>.